Wednesday, June 6, 2012

My Little Pony and Masculinity/Femininity

There is a crisis of manhood in the modern world insofar as we seem to lack the same caliber of man we used to have. Today I wanted to address the issues raised in a recent PBS video on whether bronies are redefining masculinity. Skip to 1:36 for the money part if you're already familiar with the phenomenon of bronies.


It is easy to see that, yes, bronies are unambiguously challenging the cultural definition of manhood. Boys like lots of manly action sequences and girls like dresses, ponies, and rainbows. I think it is safe to say that most people agree it is not necessary to manhood or womanhood that a strict set of interests is adhered to. I don't have to enjoy bland First Person Shooters about brown and gray space marines to be manly, nor must a woman be a lover of shopping or cooking to be womanly.

You need to be at least half this buff to even be considered a male
However, this does not mean that there is no distinction between man and woman beyond their physical characteristics. There is a middle ground between the more conservative (I'm not speaking politically) view of having to shoehorn yourself into the same template as every other member of your gender and the more liberal viewpoint of tossing out any real difference between the sexes. I believe the difference can be illustrated with an example brought up by the PBS video above. Women wearing pants.

The idea that it is acceptable for women to wear pants is fairly ubiquitous in modern society. We do not equate it with more socially unacceptable actions like cross-dressing. As pants do not inherently fail to protect a woman's modesty nor are they physically incapable of being properly worn by women, it is simply a matter of subjective taste. Forgive me for simply reading Wikipedia as a source for this, but women began wearing pants as convenient work wear while their husbands were away during World War II. Even if they hadn't had a practical reason for doing so, a women who was able to deal with the odd looks she might receive would not have caused a great deal of scandal. It is this that serves as a parallel for men who watch My Little Pony. Being a Brony only challenges the established gender differences insofar as it is simply abnormal for a man to watch these kinds of shows. It does not inherently challenge the idea of masculinity's existence even if many who watch the show might do so themselves.

This is unlike the idea of cross-dressing. It is through the act of dressing solely to look like the opposite sex that the idea of masculinity and femininity is challenged. Excluding underwear, any individual piece of clothing worn by a transvestite can be seen as merely abnormal taste. It is together that the cross-dresser removes any sense of true gender difference. They are not proclaiming a legitimate difference in preference to the world so much as visibly throwing off their own gender and its legitimate roles in society. Where My Little Pony comes in is that people who do the former kind of gender challenge (women wearing pants) are also more likely to do the latter kind of challenging. Men who watch MLP are not challenging masculinity by watching the show, but some men who watch the show are also challenging masculinity.

Catholic Masculinity

The most recent trend in masculinity is twofold. You have some who advocate the "no difference at all between men and women" point of view who become men that try to be feminine. On the other hand there is a move to an even more "masculine" lifestyle as some feminists attempt to become masculine. This is wear the steroid using space marine video games come from. But what does "being a man" truly mean?

Being a man is to be reflective of God the Father to others. There is a reason God wished us to call Him by that title, and why we also refer to priests as "Father." A man should take on the role of leader in what he does. Not in the way that is feared (sometimes for good reason) by modern sensibility, but as a total gift of self to another, be it his family if he is married or his parish if he is a priest. A man is not the dictator of his household or parish, he is a leader. And as leader, he is to love in the way that has been set in front of him by God.

"Husbands, love your wives, as Christ also loved the church, and delivered himself up for it." (Ephesians 5:25)
The ultimate expression of Love is also the ultimate expression of manhood

Man's position in the total self-gift between the spouses can be seen as leader through how he has been equipped for the task. Much can be seen of it in the sexual act. Man is the giver and woman is the receiver in more ways than the physical. Though both genders have a sexual urge, it is man that has a much higher propensity to direct the urge in a disordered manner. Women truly have much more to fear from men than vice versa in sexual matters, but a true man from the Catholic perspective learns from that sexual urge towards another individual and allows it to grow into total love for her. Furthermore, the man knowing his ability to harm her, he protects woman through preserving her modesty before marriage (as he should with all women) and he additionally protects her in corporeal matters afterward.

With this general picture (Thank you JPII) in mind, is MLP a positive, negative or neutral force in pursuit of this ideal? I believe it to be neutral. The morals of each episode are always about friendship and Philia (love of friends) and do not advocate behavior which is proper to only one sex. While we should be wary of the one who says we cannot assign differences to the genders, the issue of masculinity and femininity being cast aside in the modern world is separate from the man who watches MLP. First of all because there are many good reasons to watch the show, and secondly because My Little Pony has not taken a side on the issue. Despite the unfortunate prevalence of relativism in places it shouldn't be, MLP is one of the cases of an actual subjective preference. It would be wrong to accuse a brony of challenging true masculinity even if he challenges the false masculine image we are brought up with.

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